We are extremely saddened to report that we recently lost our dear Bella. We are glad to have this forum provided by RAGOM which allows us to share our grief with others who have also lost their “special” companions. Not only does the Rainbow Bridge webpage provide all of us with a resource to express our sadness, but also a means by which our departed pets can say “I was here and I made a difference!” Through adulthood, Bella had a very difficult life. She was kept outdoors, unkempt, in a kennel 24/7, where she bore several liters of puppies for her owners. Eventually she became unwanted, a casualty of divorce. But, at nine years of age, her “luck” changed dramatically when, in late 2009, she had the good fortune of becoming a RAGOM dog, She was brought to the Twin Cities with an array of health and hygiene problems. There she was fostered and nurtured by an extremely kind, patient, and caring lady who recognized immediately what a special dog Bella was. We acquired Bella in May, 2010, after her foster diligently made sure that we would provide Bella with the care and love she deserved. Their parting was sad for both of them, though happily they remained in touch through “lunch dates" and pictures. In the 2.8 years we had with Bella, our lives were changed. We have adopted senior dogs for fifteen years and they have all had virtues we will always cherish. Bella, however was truly special and charismatic. Despite her previous difficult life, she remained steadfast in her love for others. Her favorite pastime was greeting other people and other dogs on her daily walks. She would never approach them insistently but rather stop, wag her tail, and demurely wait for them to summon her. A subsequent pat on her head would suffice and she was willing to move on. When our newborn granddaughter visited for the first time, Bella quietly got off her “sickbed” smelled the baby, and then licked her leg. Bella was afflicted with severe and progressive arthritis. Despite multiple drug trials, orthopedic devices and our nursing efforts, Bella’s back legs eventually could no longer hold her. Though she never complained, it was apparent she was in a great deal of pain. We were faced with one of the hardest decisions of our life. We knew she would get no better and to continue further was only committing her to more undeserved suffering. Bella was so loving, kind, and gentle. Everyone who took the time to stop and pat her head remembered her and always greeted her. We can’t help thinking that if everyone was a little more like Bella, ours would be a better world. “Bella, honey, you were here, you mattered, and you made a BIG difference! We will never forget you." |