Well, this is the last update I will be writing for our sweet Sugar, as today she moves to a most wonderful permanent foster home – I couldn’t have handpicked a better one!
Sugar is well on her way to making the adjustment from homeless girl to house dog! The best news this morning is that she final ate a real breakfast this morning – kibble mixed with a little wet food – AND out of a dog bowl! We didn’t load her up because she is going on a trip today.
Since the “terrible, horrible, no good, bad day” (read all about it below), with the help of a bit of anti-anxiety medicine, a few other tricks of the trade, and a consistent routine, she is just the best girl to have around. She has had free run of most of the house (not the bedrooms or bathrooms) since Thursday and there have been no accidents and no destruction – even when I leave for an hour or so. She sleeps on the floor next to her FD’s side of the bed. Sugar really likes her FD!



We take several walks a day – that is how she prefers to go potty – but we believe that if she had a fenced-in yard to meander and sniff for a bit, she would at least pee in the yard. She may always need to take a walk to poop, but it doesn’t take long (according to the Fitbit – about 1000 steps round-trip).
She is curious about play, but doesn’t really know how. In many ways, she is a like a puppy – needs to learn her name and all the basic commands, which we started – but is house-trained! Bonus! She responds to a whistle, gets along with the RDs and has claimed the corner of the loveseat to hang out on.




Our walks take us along the river in the backyard; she now pays curious attention to the ducks and geese and would definitely chase squirrels if I allowed her to. She also thinks I am crazy because I won’t let her go down and drink from that giant water fountain (river) and gives me such a look. It is comical. We also cross paths with many of our neighbors and their dogs and she is just fine, continues to walk like a dream on the leash (unless those evil squirrels cross her path), and even lays down if I stop for any length of time to visit with another human. Everyone loves to hear Sugar’s story and even asks for the RAGOM website so they can follow her story!
Sugar and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day:
I had not left since we got her (I work from home), but Thursday morning, I had to leave for a meeting. When I returned, Sugar was waiting for me at the door! Fortunately, the only casualty was the crate door (which is only $10 to replace!); she did not destroy anything else. She was inconsolable, crying beyond anything we have seen with her before... I have always been able to distract her anxiety with some water, a treat, a walk, laying by her side, etc., but not today. I had already tried Rescue Remedy for dogs and lavender essential oil – both of which seemed to help in the past. I am sure that going from being out on her own to becoming a house dog must be incredibly confusing for her and me leaving just “flipped a switch.” This doesn’t seem like a true separation anxiety – no self harm, destruction, or soiling herself – but more of another phase of situational adjustment. It was time to call the vet for help and a game plan. While we were waiting for the vet to call, we took another walk – it helped her be a bit more tired, but no less anxious. I added some relaxing piano music when we got back and THAT actually seemed to help – heck, it worked with my kids, so why not try it? (The music still works very well, like a calming switch, so we are sending a copy of the CD with her.) To describe the feeling for me, it was like having a colicky baby that, no matter what you do, wouldn’t stop crying... I was to tears feeling so bad I couldn’t make her feel better.
I took her up to the vet to have a mini-blood panel done so we were cleared to use anti-anxiety meds, and her blood work was perfect. (I am still amazed at what a strong, healthy dog she is – given her past.) We started her on 100 mg of Trazadone every 12 hours. We can increase slowly if needed; I hoped this helped her over the worst of it. It is very fast-acting. I ended up rescheduling my afternoon meeting that day because I just didn’t feel comfortable leaving her. I had 3 meetings Friday that I couldn’t get out of; I was ready to see if one of my friends can doggie sit if the meds didn’t help.
Here is the good news! During all of this – no destructive behavior, no accidents (she hasn’t had a single one!). I didn’t want the tether to increase her anxiety, so she had free roam. I left for 3 different 1-hour meetings. She did fine. This is why I am hoping it is an acclimation anxiety because it is not typical.
The rest is history! There may be a few new adjustments in her new foster home; we were able to decrease her anxiety medicine by half.
Good luck, Sugar – keep in touch! We love you!


