What can we say? Toby is the best! Such a sweet and affectionate dog who has settled in nicely with his confident sister Susie, and Sebastian, the black cat, who accepted him from Day 1. Toby remains somewhat skittish with unexpected noises, and still chooses to take his meals anywhere but in the kitchen where a dish might clank, but is gradually earning to relax and enjoy life. We think his early life must have been pretty rough though and try every day to show him that no one will ever neglect him or abuse him again. I will never forget him stretching out on the couch shortly after arriving, with his head on a pillow and giving a sigh, as if realizing, yes, this place will do nicely as my forever home.
Toby has also experienced two sailing and beach adventures on Lake Michigan, each time adapting to his boating and beach experiences quite nicely. He has one more week of sailing and beach time to look forward to this summer. Toby loved visiting family in Cleveland recently and also took a dip in Lake Erie. Interestingly, Toby's feet are not webbed - and gripped the rocks on the beach like talons!
Now and then Toby decides to imitate the cat, and stands on mom's chest while she is lying in bed or on the couch. As a 60 lb cat, Toby is encouraged to lie down and (thankfully) eventually does so.
Toby has learned about toys and now and then grabs a toy from the toy basket to check out. That is really fun to see.
The other day Susie led him out to the end of the downspout in their play area where they heard a noise. Mom got them inside and rescued the ground squirrel stuck inside. Susie always waits for Toby to go outside whenever she decides it is time to play outside - - she licks his face alot and demonstrates the art of lying on her back for Toby---who actually imitated her the other day. How is that for expressing a feeling of trust?
Recently, Toby and Susie saw a deer in their backyard. Toby leaped over the unbreachable fence to check out the deer, which has left mom and dad scratching their heads as to how best to Toby-proof the fence. Likely a few more inches of height will do the trick. Toby also wears a GPS device on his collar, so would be trackable regardless.
Toby is quickly learning commands, and remains a good walker, with no pulling, ever. However, he remains quite shy when new people appear on the scene, tucking his tail between his legs. While he initially trembled slightly if we didn't move along, now he just sits as far away as he can and waits for us to keep going. This is nothing like the trembling Toby we first met earlier this summer. He also is definitely is more confident on his walks when he has Susie along.
We use Toby's tail as a barometer as to how confident he is feeling. In his play area, the tail is fully out and just beautiful. When we talk to him, the tail is wagging. When initially meeting family members in our home, that tail is tucked in. However, it is not long before Toby understands that this new person is another kind person who he can trust. One daughter decided Toby might enjoy a new pair of glasses (see pictures).
Susie and Toby make the most beautiful pair of dogs. We are so lucky to have Toby as part of our family.
Thank you to RAGOM for letting us adopt him.
We couldn't decide on just one picture - so attached a few!
Burdell and Barbara C
Ames, Iowa